" While true faith is filled with holy fire, it is a fire that is meant for refining and healing, as opposed to dividing and destroying. If our faith ignites hurt rather than healing upon the bodies, hearts, and souls of other people—even those who treat us unkindly—then something has gone terribly wrong with our faith. "

― Scott Sauls , A Gentle Answer: Our 'Secret Weapon' in an Age of Us Against Them