" It’s true you can’t get everything you want from one person, but then, who says you need everything? Where did you get the idea you deserve everything? The issue is not what you deserve. The issue is, whom are you here to serve? Yourself, or your spouse? Yourself, or God? "

― Manis Friedman , Doesn't Anyone Blush Anymore?: Reclaiming Intimacy, Modesty, and Sexuality