" One of the things I have learned about death is this: no matter how grief stricken you are, no matter how much you miss them, yearning for their laughs or hands or eyes, your relationship to the dead continues long after their bodies are gone. Memory is not simply a way of holding on, it is a reencounter. Their visits continue as long as you do.. "

― Imani Perry , Looking for Lorraine: The Radiant and Radical Life of Lorraine Hansberry