" When you do what you want, not what you wish...' said the first raven.
'When you no longer seek your reflection in others' eyes...' said the second.
'When you see yourselves face to face...' said the third.
'Then,' the ravens intoned in unison, 'you will have found what you truly seek. "

― Adam Gidwitz , In a Glass Grimmly (A Tale Dark & Grimm, #2)