" Love is trusting someone, being there for someone, being ready to listen with a tender heart for no other reason than love. At times we are not sure whether what we feel is love. At that moment, ask yourself this: “Am I happy to give more even after having given a lot?” If the answer is yes, and there is no regret afterward, then that is probably love. "

― Haemin Sunim , The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down: Guidance on the Path to Mindfulness from a Spiritual Leader