QUOTE : All my life I had been looking for something, and everywhere<br /> I turned someone tried to tell me what it was. I accepted their<br /> answers too, though they were often in contradiction and even<br /> self-contradictory. I was naïve. I was looking for myself and<br /> asking everyone except myself questions which I, and only I,<br /> could answer. It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone<br /> else appears to have been born with: That I am nobody but<br /> myself. RALPH ELLISON, The Invisible Man