QUOTE : Having a good time together is the essence of lovingness and the best means of increasing it.<br /><br />Boys and girls need chances to be around their father, to be enjoyed by him and if possible to do things with him. Better to play fifteen minutes enjoyably and then say, 'Now I'm going to read my paper' than to spend all day at the zoo crossly.<br /><br />Parental trust is extremely important in the guidance of adolescent children as they get further and further away from the direct supervision of their parents and teachers. I don't mean that trust without clear guidance is enough, but guidance without trust is worthless.<br /><br /><br />Don't worry about trying to do a perfect job. There is no perfect job. There is no one way of raising your children.